The days of relying on traditional marketing methods are long gone. If you’re still clinging to outdated strategies, it’s time to wake up and smell the coffee—because engagement season is here, and you need to be at the top of your game. Couples are actively hunting for their wedding vendors, and trust me, they’re not going to settle for anything less than extraordinary.
In this blog post, we’ll break down exactly how you can leave behind the old-school marketing tactics and step into a bolder, results-driven approach using AI, customer insights, and your unique differentiators. The goal? To dominate engagement season, stand out in the crowded wedding market, and secure the kind of clients that will take your business to the next level. Let’s dive in!
Let’s get real: Traditional marketing doesn’t cut it anymore. Couples today want more than a flashy website or a pretty Instagram grid. They’re looking for personalized experiences, and they want to connect with vendors who understand their unique needs. Simply put, your potential clients crave authenticity, speed, and a seamless process—and if you’re not delivering on that, they’ll go elsewhere.
So, what does this mean for you? It means it’s time to pivot. Here’s how you can start leveraging modern strategies to thrive this engagement season.
“The key to standing out in a crowded wedding market is knowing what makes you different. Dig into your client reviews to find the strengths that set you apart and turn those into your marketing superpower.” – Brandee Gaar
The key to attracting your dream clients starts with understanding what makes you different from every other wedding pro out there. Spoiler alert: Your clients have already told you what sets you apart—you just have to take a look.
Dive into your reviews. Whether it’s on Google, The Knot, or WeddingWire, your reviews contain valuable insights into why clients loved working with you. Maybe it’s your calm demeanor, your attention to logistics, or your ability to create truly unique weddings. Whatever it is, this is your golden ticket to standing out.
But here’s where most wedding pros trip up—they assume they know their differentiators, but never actually dig into what their clients are saying.
Instead of spending hours manually sifting through reviews, let AI do the heavy lifting. With AI, you can quickly analyze your reviews to pull out key differentiators and trends that you can use across all your marketing channels. Here’s how to get started:
Armed with this information, you can tailor your messaging to highlight what sets you apart—because when you know exactly why your clients love you, you’ll know how to attract more of them.
“Your clients are telling you exactly why they love working with you—are you listening? Use their feedback to craft a message that speaks directly to your future clients and attracts the right ones into your business.” – Brandee Gaar
Once you’ve identified what makes you different, it’s time to infuse those insights into every corner of your marketing strategy. Here’s how to do it:
Your website should scream, “I’m the one you’ve been looking for,” from the moment a couple lands on it. Update your services page, about page, and homepage to reflect the insights you’ve uncovered. Remember, you’re not just selling a service—you’re selling the experience of working with you.
Forget the pretty pictures with no substance. Social media during engagement season is all about speaking directly to your clients’ pain points and offering your services as the solution. Based on the insights you’ve gathered, use AI to craft captions that convert.
Here’s an easy prompt: “Based on these differentiators, write five Instagram captions that will resonate with and convert [Ideal Client Persona].”
Examples AI might create:
These captions speak directly to your clients’ pain points, giving them a reason to connect with—and ultimately book—you.
Your sales page is where the magic happens. If it’s feeling a little flat, now’s the time to spice it up using the differentiators you uncovered. Ask AI to help you with this by using a prompt like: “Using these differentiators, write a strong sales page blurb for [Your Company Name].”
In just a few seconds, you’ll have copy that’s designed to convert. Of course, you’ll want to personalize it, but the bones of the content will be spot on. (Don’t just copy and paste!) The more clearly you communicate how you stand out, the faster you’ll turn inquiries into bookings
“To attract high-quality clients, focus on their biggest pain points. When you show them you understand their needs—whether it’s saving time, reducing stress, or creating a flawless event—they’ll know you’re the solution they’ve been looking for.” – Brandee Gaar
To truly win this engagement season, you’ve got to speak to your clients’ pain points. And I’m not talking about generic stuff like “wedding planning is stressful”—we all know that! I mean real, specific pain points that are unique to your ideal clients.
Here’s where AI can help again. After it analyzes your reviews, ask it: “Based on these differentiators, what are the pain points of [Your Company Name]’s ideal customers?”
Here’s what you might discover:
When you know your clients’ exact pain points, you can create content that speaks directly to their concerns and positions you as the solution.
“Don’t get stuck in the overwhelm of content creation. By honing in on what your clients love about working with you, you can create content that speaks to their hearts and minds, and ultimately converts them into loyal customers.” – Brandee Gaar
With all these insights at your fingertips, it’s time to start creating content that speaks to your ideal client—and converts. Here’s another powerful AI prompt: “Based on these pain points, create five blog topics or Instagram captions that will attract [Ideal Client Persona] and encourage them to book.”
Now your content isn’t just pretty—it’s strategic. Every post, caption, and blog is designed to address your clients’ concerns, show them that you understand their needs, and get them excited to work with you.
Listen, CEO: Traditional marketing is dead. If you’re still relying on those tired old strategies, you’re leaving money on the table. Instead, leverage the power of AI, customer insights, and laser-focused messaging to make this engagement season your best one yet.
The key takeaway? Know what makes you stand out, understand your clients’ pain points, and craft your messaging to address those needs. Do this, and you’ll position yourself as the go-to vendor in your market, ready to land your next 7-figure client.
Still need some help DM me on Instagram, let me know you were listening to or watching this episode and you have some questions. I am hear for it!
1. Why is traditional marketing no longer effective for wedding pros?
Couples today want personalized experiences and authentic connections with their vendors. Traditional marketing tactics don’t resonate with modern brides and grooms the way they used to.
2. How can I leverage customer reviews to improve my marketing?
Customer reviews reveal your unique strengths and differentiators. By analyzing them, you can craft messaging that highlights why clients love working with you—and use that to attract new business.
3. How can AI help me create better content?
AI can analyze your reviews, uncover key differentiators, and generate content ideas based on your clients’ pain points. It streamlines the content creation process and ensures you’re speaking directly to your target audience.
4. Should I update my website during engagement season?
Instead of doing a full rebrand, focus on refreshing your copy to highlight your differentiators and speak to your ideal clients’ needs. Your website should be working to convert leads, not just look pretty.
5. How do I address client pain points in my marketing?
By identifying the specific concerns your ideal clients have—whether it’s stress, fear of a cookie-cutter wedding, or vendor anxiety—you can create content that directly addresses those issues and positions you as the solution.
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